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The Manosphere Hits Manopause… Which Will Make Travel and Daily Life More Fun for Us AllWhy the Decline of Online Misogyny Could Make the World a Better Place for Women, Especially Those of Us Who Travel.By Marbel Montoya for Ruta Pantera on 11/3/2026 7:09:19 AM |
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| If you have spent any time online lately, you may have noticed that a certain type of man has become very busy explaining how the world should work. He has opinions about what women should wear, whom they should date, how much they should earn, whether they should have careers, and, naturally, why men should be in charge. He has podcasts, followers, motivational speeches, fitness routines, and a vocabulary that seems to include the word alpha approximately every five minutes. Welcome to the manosphere, that enormous digital neighborhood where masculinity is sometimes confused with dominance and where a woman's independence can apparently trigger a full-scale identity crisis. But something interesting may be happening. Some of the most recognizable personalities associated with this culture are losing popularity among young American men. Their influence is being questioned, their political alliances are becoming less comfortable, and audiences that once listened enthusiastically are showing signs of fatigue. Perhaps we are witnessing the beginning of what I like to call manopause. And honestly, a little cultural relief would be welcome. A Manhood That Needs an Update The manosphere is not one organization or a single movement. It is a collection of online communities, influencers, podcasts, and forums that discuss masculinity, relationships, and men's social position. Some offer ordinary advice about fitness, confidence, or personal development. Others promote hostility toward feminism, rigid gender hierarchies, and the idea that women should return to traditional roles. The problem is not men wanting to become stronger, more confident, or more successful. Those are perfectly reasonable ambitions. The problem begins when personal improvement becomes a competition against women. Some corners of the internet have turned relationships into a strange economic transaction, where women are evaluated like products and men are encouraged to think of themselves as investors seeking the highest possible return. Romance becomes a marketplace, respect becomes optional, and equality is treated as a threat. It is an exhausting way to approach human relationships. Recent reporting suggests that some prominent online personalities who helped mobilize young male audiences during the 2024 American election are experiencing declining favorability. That does not mean the manosphere has disappeared. Its ideas continue to circulate, sometimes under different names and through new influencers. But audiences may be becoming more selective about whom they trust. Perhaps young men are discovering that listening to someone shout about dominance for three hours does not necessarily improve their lives. A Latina's View of the Problem As a Latina, I find this conversation particularly interesting because women in Latin America have long navigated complicated expectations about femininity, relationships, appearance, and family. Our cultures are wonderfully diverse, and there is no single Latin American experience. But in many communities, women still encounter expectations that they should be attractive but not too confident, independent but not intimidating, successful but never so successful that a man feels uncomfortable. We know the balancing act. There is a difference between appreciating traditional values and expecting women to surrender their independence. There is also a difference between being proud of masculinity and believing that masculinity gives someone authority over another person. I have nothing against a man who enjoys being a gentleman, opening a door, paying for dinner, or taking responsibility. Courtesy is lovely. But courtesy should be freely given, not used as an invoice that a woman must repay with obedience. A confident man does not need a woman to become smaller so that he can feel bigger. That seems like a reasonable starting point for a new conversation. |
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Why This Matters When We Travel Now, let's talk about travel, because this is where the conversation becomes much more interesting. Travel is supposed to expand our world. We visit unfamiliar cities, meet people with different backgrounds, discover new traditions, taste unfamiliar food, and sometimes challenge assumptions we did not even realize we had. For women, however, traveling can involve an additional calculation. Can I walk back to my hotel alone? Is this taxi safe? Will that stranger understand that no means no? Can I enjoy a beach, a nightclub, or a restaurant without having to manage unwanted attention? These questions do not define every woman's journey, but they are familiar considerations for many female travelers. Imagine a world in which a woman could explore Cartagena, dance in Rio de Janeiro, walk through New York, enjoy a late dinner in Mexico City, or spend an afternoon in Medellín without having to calculate every possible response to unwanted male attention. That would be a genuine improvement in the travel experience. And the benefits would extend beyond women. Men would also enjoy destinations where social interactions are based on mutual respect rather than suspicion, intimidation, or competition. Tourism works best when people feel welcome. A destination is not truly hospitable simply because its hotels are beautiful and its restaurants serve excellent food. Hospitality also depends on how people treat one another in public spaces. A culture of respect makes better hosts, better visitors, and better travel companions. The Politics of Being an Alpha There is also an interesting connection between the manosphere and American politics. During the 2024 presidential campaign, Donald Trump and several prominent conservative media personalities found common ground with audiences of young men who consumed content about masculinity, strength, traditional gender roles, and cultural resentment. Researchers have examined how these online personalities and alternative media platforms helped connect ideas about masculinity with political identity. But political alliances are not permanent, and neither are audiences. By October 2026, reporting indicated that some of these influencers were experiencing tensions with their former political allies and losing favorability among parts of their young male audience. It would be premature to declare the entire manosphere defeated, or to assume that every political development signals its disappearance. Digital movements rarely vanish overnight. They adapt, rebrand, and find new audiences. Still, there is something worth examining when young men begin questioning the people who once claimed to speak for them. Perhaps they want something more useful than an endless culture war. Perhaps they are more interested in affordable housing, meaningful work, good relationships, and a future that does not require them to prove their masculinity every morning. Those are not unreasonable expectations. A World with Less Performance and More Personality I would like to see masculinity become less of a performance. A man should be able to enjoy fashion, cooking, dancing, art, travel, parenting, or whatever makes him happy without worrying about whether someone on the internet considers him sufficiently masculine. And women should be able to do exactly the same without being told that their independence makes them undesirable. Imagine the possibilities for travelers. More friendships between strangers. More respectful conversations in bars and restaurants. More women exploring unfamiliar destinations independently. More men comfortable sharing experiences without feeling that every interaction is a contest. The world is already complicated enough. We have flight delays, lost luggage, expensive hotel rooms, confusing immigration procedures, and airport security lines. We really do not need a passenger explaining the theory of male superiority while occupying both armrests. Perhaps that is the real promise of manopause: not the disappearance of men, not the end of masculinity, and certainly not a world without romance. It is the possibility of leaving behind an outdated idea that one gender must dominate the other. I would much rather meet a man who can recommend a great restaurant in Buenos Aires, teach me something about the history of New Orleans, or share a beautiful sunset in Costa Rica than someone who spends the entire evening explaining why women should be less independent. So, if the manosphere is entering a period of reflection, perhaps it is time to welcome a little change. Men can still be strong. Women can still be independent. Everyone can have an opinion, a passport, a career, and the freedom to enjoy life. And if that sounds like a more pleasant world in which to travel, I suspect we can all agree on one thing: less posturing, more passport stamping. |
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References: Axios – The Manosphere Stars Who Helped Trump Win Are Losing Their Shine (October 20, 2026). Sobre los cambios de popularidad de algunos influencers. City Research Online – The Manosphere, Podcasts, and the Strongman Politics of Donald Trump. Investigación sobre masculinidad, medios y política. A Framework for Understanding the Manosphere (2026). Estudio académico sobre las comunidades digitales y sus características. Lean In – Research: How the Manosphere Is Showing Up at Work (October 20, 2026). Datos sobre la exposición a estos contenidos y su relación con las percepciones de las mujeres en el trabajo. |
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